How to be Joyful….When Disaster Strikes

My bible reading today is “The Magnificat”. It is the song/poem of a pregnant, unwed teenager living in a culture where pregnant unwed women could be stoned to death. She had been sent away from her family, probably to hide her pregnancy. The father is nowhere in sight.

Her response?

“My soul glorifies the Lord and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior, for he has been mindful of the humble state of his servant. From now on all generations will call me blessed, for the Mighty One has done great things for me—holy is his name. His mercy extends to those who fear him, from generation to generation. He has performed mighty deeds with his arm; he has scattered those who are proud in their inmost thoughts. He has brought down rulers from their thrones but has lifted up the humble. He has filled the hungry with good things but has sent the rich away empty. He has helped his servant Israel, remembering to be merciful to Abraham and his descendants forever, just as he promised our ancestors.”

Mary, NIV

To really grasp the gravity of this, consider Mary’s situation from her perspective……..looking forward. If she even survived, she probably faced a life with no job, no family, no support, rejection by society…….and a hungry mouth to feed.

By any logical accounting, Mary’s situation was a disaster……..and it was about to get worse. It was quite possible that she would not even live through it…….if the legalists got their hands on her.

And yet, her reaction to this disaster is not dispair…….but, rather joy, thankfulness, and praise.

How can that be?

Looking back, the answer is simple. Mary knew something that nobody else knew………or at least something that they didn’t believe. Mary knew something…….that was simply impossible.

Mary was joyful because she believed with absolute certainty in something “impossible”.

And here is the moral:

Limiting yourself to believing only in what is “possible”, ultimately leads to dispair. The best possible case? You are going to die. And I’m not even going to mention the worst possible case.

Believing in the impossible leads to joy…….even in the face of disaster. Because……..there is a part of you that is supernatural.

There is a part of YOU that is impossible.

YOU are eternal.

We all have bad days…….. fairly often…….car accident, lost keys, missed appointment, late for work.

We also have disasters………loss of a job, illness, homelessness, death of a loved one. These are less frequent……..but we all face them. Furthermore, our disasters are no worse than what Mary faced.

So……when, disaster strikes, the key to dealing with it?

Don’t dwell on the “possible” outcomes.

Remember, that you have been promised the “impossible”.

That promise comes from a creator who loves you and who has your back………all day……..every day.

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”

God, NIV

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Evolution, Creation, and Assumptions

I will return to this topic from time to time.

Because it is so important.

I am a Christian and I believe that these 3 things are the most important and least understood ideas that mankind must sort through. From an eternal perspective, the misuse of these ideas will cause mankind more pain than anything else we will ever encounter. The central goal of this blog…….is to diminish that pain.

Most Americans believe in Darwinian Evolution.

Many Americans believe in intelligent design…….creation.

One belief system essentially denies an intelligent creator, God. The other accepts the idea of a creator. These “origin stories” are mutually exclusive. I know a great many people who try to believe both. I once did……but this is intellectually dishonest. Evolution says that we got here by accident. Intelligent design says that we were put here by an intelligent being.

How can two groups of intelligent, sophisticated people look at the same set of facts and come to such different conclusions?

Bear with me while I tell a story. It’s fictional but very instructive.

A father and his son (normal biological son) go for a Sunday drive. There is a terrible accident. The father is killed instantly. The son is rushed to the hospital. The ER doc says “this boy is dying….get a surgeon!”. The phone rings…….the ER doc describes the situation. The surgeon says,” I can’t operate on this kid….. he’s my son!”. The ER doc says, “That’s impossible, the kid’s father died in the crash”.

The surgeon says:

“I’m his mother.”

The ER doc grossly misinterpreted the situation.
Why?

Because he began with an assumption that was incorrect. He assumed that surgeons are men. The lesson is that if you begin with a bad assumption……..you can follow a bulletproof chain of logic to a ridiculous conclusion.

Each side of the evolution/creation debate begins with an assumption. And those assumptions are the key.
Furthermore, they are mutually exclusive.
The evolutionist assumes that a creator, operating outside of the rules of our physical world is impossible.

The creationist assumes that a supernatural, intelligent creator exists.

The evolutionist trots out the fossil record. The creationist trots out the Bible and miracles.

The simple fact is this:
Using a set of logical, scientific, fact based rules that both sides agree on…….. neither side can “prove” their underlying assumption.

The evolutionist cannot prove that God doesn’t exist.

The creationist cannot prove that God does exist.

And this is a logical “dead end”. We cannot honestly analyze our way out of this. Using the intellectual tools at our disposal……we cannot think our way out of this delimma.

This would be an amusing intellectual exercise……if the stakes were not so high.

The problem is this.

God is not a simple isolated idea.

God is an idea that comes with expectations……that comes with eternity…….and consequences……..both good and bad.

So……..we find ourselves at a fork in the road…….a choice between two mutually exclusive “origin stories”. There is no rock solid logical proof that will help us to choose which to believe…….and the consequences of selecting the wrong path could be even more profound than “life or death”.

What to do?

What do you do……..when logic fails…….when intellect fails?

This is uncomfortable ground…..for me.

When logic fails……when intellect fails……you must listen to your heart.

Because the truth……..is in your heart.

When you search your heart what do you sense?

Are you the product of a giant biochemical accident?
Or
Are you the creation of an intelligent being?

In my heart, I do not feel like an accident. I sense that there is a purpose behind my existence…….and behind that purpose …….is an intelligent creator……..a creator with a plan……..for me.


For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place, when I was woven together in the depths of the earth. Your eyes saw my unformed body; all the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be.

David, NIV

Then the Lord God formed a man from the dust of the ground and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life, and the man became a living being.

Moses, NIV
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The Greatest Truth

We live in a world where we are constantly told that there is no real truth.

It’s all relative.

It depends.

Everybody’s situation is different.

What’s right for you may not be right for me.

Do your own thing.

I just need this.

I’m OK…… you’re OK.

But, if you listen to your heart, you know things……..things that are constant……..things that are right…….things that are true.

So………my question for you today is this:

What is the greatest truth that you know?

The love of a parent for her child.

There is beauty in the world.

There is evil in the world.

It is right to be kind.

It is wrong to cause another pain.

Relationships are important.

Loneliness hurts.

Love……….it all seems to come back to love.

These truths are deeply ingrained in every one of us. We sometimes ignore them or deny them……..but they just will not go away. They are in our “operating system”……..our “read only memory”.

In a word…….they are written on our hearts.

When we pursue these truths, we are happy.

When we discard them…….or lose them…….we feel pain.

We cannot wish them away. We cannot replace them with self made rules in order to satisfy our appetites.

We can rationalize. We can justify. We can pursue appetites that go against them. We can weasel our way around them. But, our attempts to get around them are, at best, temporary. In the final accounting, our attempts to violate them always result in pain. They are absolute and immutable………in spite of what the culture tells us.

How can these ideas be so universal……..so uniform across cultures……… so constant over time?

Simple……..it’s because they are true.

These ideas are what Christianity, at it’s heart, is all about. They are in our hearts because they were put there. They were put there because they are essential. They are as critical to our lives as the chemistry that runs out bodies. Discard insulin and your body fails…….. discard these truths and your life fails.

It’s just that simple.

Love

Love God

Love your neighbor

That…….is the truth that is in your heart.

Love.

And that is Christianity.

So……..the challenge here is to examine your heart. Dig deep and find the truths that are clearly written there……… written there by God. Be careful not to substitute your appetites for God’s truth. Your appetites are transient. God’s truth is eternal.

This search is the beginning of wisdom.

“Of all the commandments, which is the most important?”

“The most important one,” answered Jesus, “is this: ‘Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’ The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no commandment greater than these.”

Jesus summarizing Christianity, NIV

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Truth revisited

Honor your mother and father.

Rolls off the tongue doesn’t it? And yet how good are we at following this command?

For many years, I saw my mother as shallow and my father as distant. But lately, I’m seeing them more clearly. My dad ran a business. For decades he worked 6 1/2 days a week. My mom raised me and my brother and sister and did the books for the business.

Here is today’s epiphany:

I never heard them tell a lie. A lot of things happened in my family and a lot of things didn’t happen. But, every day a thread ran through it…….the truth. If my mom or dad said something……it would never have crossed my mind that it might not be true. You can say that that was the 50’s and that things are different now. But, are they? Has the truth gone away…….or possibly become unfashionable?

Watch TV tonight. You will see instance after instance where a well crafted lie is used to reach a goal. And the scary part is that this is presented as a positive thing. We even have a term for someone who strives to tell the truth and do the right thing. We call him a “Boy Scout”…………and this is not a complement. Telling the truth is often seen as evidence of naivety or lack of sophistication………or just plain stupid. We entertain ourselves by watching people lie and kill each other for hours every evening…….every day. We see that the best tool for solving a complicated problem is a handgun.

Just this week I heard a science based show on NPR that pretty much said that we should abandon the idea of truth. They said nothing is absolutely true, it’s all a question of probability.

And that doesn’t even come close to what we see on the “news” and what we hear from our leaders. Our leaders and the talking heads on our TV carefully edit the facts and present us with just the data that supports their agenda…….all in the name of promoting “the greater good”. They honestly believe that what they are doing is noble.

Is it any wonder that we have lost our mooring?

Is it any wonder that we have mass shootings?

Is it any wonder that we need web sites to tell us about the lies that other web sites tell us?

Is it any wonder that Facebook and Twitter block posts that don’t align with their agenda?

Here is an exercise for this week:

After dinner, turn on your TV. The first time someone tells a lie……the first time someone is killed…… the first time someone uses a gun to “solve” a problem……..the first time a talking head presents a “fact” that sells some political agenda…….turn it off.

You should have a good book handy……because I can guarantee you that you are going to need it. Or maybe you could go out into the yard and play with your kids…..or an even more radical move…….talk to them. Tell them the truth. Don’t lecture them about your politics.

We worry about the time our kids spend on their computers, cell phones, and tablets. But I can make a good case that what we adults consume on TV is far more destructive than “Roblox”.

Don’t lie

God

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Anger

A typical American will live about 80 years on average.
That comes down to about 42 million minutes. Even after you subtract out the time we spend asleep, that leaves 28 million minutes. This is the time during which we must live our lives.

The good news……….that’s a lot of minutes. Even so……it is a finite number. We only get so many minutes and when they are gone…….they are gone……and there is nothing we can do to get a single one of them back.
In a word ……….we get a lot of “do…s”……..but, we don’t get any “redo…..s”.

The bad news………..our 28 million minutes don’t all count. Every minute that you spend angry is subtracted from your 28 million minutes. Every minute that you spend in front of a TV or video game is also subtracted………..because that is time you spend living a fantasy…….. somebody else’s life……..but that is a topic for another day.

We all get angry……so anger is an issue for every one of us. For some of us, anger is a rare event. For others it is almost constant.

Why don’t the angry minutes count?

It’s pretty basic. We were created for relationship……..with our fellow man and with our creator….. God. Our life is a journey that is measured by the relationships that we build. Some of us are better at this than others. When we do something that does not promote relationships……..or worse, something that destroys relationships, we are off the path……we are sidetracked. The time that we spend sidetracked is lost. And we can never get it back. It’s like a hockey player who is in the penalty box. The game goes on…..life goes on……but he doesn’t get to play.

Every now and then you see somebody who looks back at their life and asks, “is that all that there is?” What you are seeing is the regret of somebody who is wondering what happened to all of the minutes that they spent……… wasted……..while they were sidetracked. Maybe this has happened to you.

And that is the problem with anger. You cannot build relationships while you are angry. Even if you want to, the other guy is not going to be very receptive……. if you approach him in anger. This is just human nature. A more likely outcome?……..your anger is going to damage, if not destroy relationships. Think of someone you know who is angry most of the time. Do you seek that person out? Do you go out of your way to spend time with them? Do you try to grow that relationship? If you do you are a saint……..and you are extremely rare.

Show me a chronically angry man (or woman)……..and I will show you a lonely, isolated man……..someone who is wasting precious minutes……… sidetracked………in the penalty box.

So…….if you are someone who is rarely angry…….you are a blessing……to yourself……..to the rest of us……..and ultimately…… to God. We all owe you our thanks.

If, on the other hand, you find that you spend too much of your time angry………and please understand……..it doesn’t matter one bit if your anger is justified……….I have a simple plea for you:

STOP WASTING YOUR TIME
You only have so many minutes left……..and the rest of us miss you.


Well, I’m goin’ down that long, lonesome road
Where I’m bound, I can’t tell
But goodbye’s too good a word
So I’ll just say fare thee well
Well, I ain’t sayin’ you treated me unkind
I could’ve done better but I don’t mind
Just kinda wasted my precious time
But don’t think twice, it’s all right
Mike Ness
 “Holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.”
Alcoholics Anonymous
Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger; for the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God.
James, NIV
“Do you do well to be angry?”
God, NIV

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Authority

noun

“the power or right to give orders, make decisions, and enforce obedience.”

“he had absolute authority over his subordinates”

Authority has its root in the Latin word “auctor” which means originator or creator.

It is closely tied to the idea of legitimacy. When we act with authority, our actions are legitimate. When we act without it, our actions are unauthorized……. illegitimate.

Authority is very important in our daily lives…….in both obvious and subtle ways. When you see a flashing blue light in the rear view mirror, you pull over……..why?……..because the police officer has authority.

Authority, it turns out, is what allows you to make decisions that affect your life…….and the lives of those around you. Ultimately, authority translates into power. Authority works best when the people on both sides of a question recognize the authority behind the decision.

Parents of teenagers deal with this every day.

If you have raised teenagers, I’m sure you have heard this one…….”You aren’t the boss of me!” If you haven’t yet dealt with a teen……..just wait. Teenagers, it turns out, often have a problem recognizing authority…….and that leads to conflict and pain.

We make decisions and act on them….. all day……every day. The success of those actions depends on the authority behind them.

So……..where does authority come from?

Authority is created. And the key issue is this:

Who creates authority?

In life, just as in the military, there is a “chain of command”. You have a boss……and your boss has a boss and so on. You have authority, because it was given to you by someone above you in the chain of command. Ultimately, at the top of the chain……at the top of the pyramid……there is an entity who creates all authority and passes it down. Ultimately, all authority comes from a creator………the creator.

And that is where the trouble begins.

Authority creates power. Authority and, therefore, legitimate power……..flows down the “chain of command,”.

And we hate that. We cannot abide someone telling us what to do. We want to be the boss. So…….we try to create authority on our own. We decide what is right and wrong based on our wants and needs and on our intellect. And so does the other guy. This is the cause for all of the mayhem in our world. A guy with a gun walks into a convenience store and exercises his self created authority over the girl at the cash register. Congress and the courts exercise their authority over the health care system and legalize abortion……..and capital punishment……….and in the past, slavery.

It turns out that……just like everything else……..there are rules governing authority.

  1. Authority is given to you…….by someone who has received it…..from someone who received it……..and so on.
  2. You cannot create your own authority out of thin air.
  3. Legitimate rules and laws are based on legitimate authority.
  4. Power follows authority.
  5. There is ultimately one source of authority……..the creator…… God.

The corollary:

No God > no legitimate authority > mayhem

And that is where we sit today in our modern progressive society. There are thousands of people who have tried to create thousands of different authorities…….all of them attempting to legitimize that person’s appetites……….all of them going in different directions…….and this is tearing us apart.

For example:

Many of us have decided that we have the authority to decide………whether we are male or female. Some of our educators teach this in our schools.

There is an organization called NAMBLA. They are trying to create a societal authorization for pedophilia.

I’m sure that we could both expand this list all day long.

The cure for the mayhem?

We must all recognize the same legitimate source of authority…….the guy at the top of the “chain of command” ……….the creator…….. God.

If you try to create your own authority…….if you yell out “you aren’t the boss of me!”……… then you are trying to become the creator……..you are trying to become God. And you will invariably come into conflict with others who are doing exactly the same thing……..others who have every bit as much authority as you do.

Two visions of authority……. “I’m the boss” vs. “I have a boss.”

Beyond this place of wrath and tears
Looms but the Horror of the shade,
And yet the menace of the years
Finds and shall find me unafraid.
It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll,
I am the master of my fate,
I am the captain of my soul.

Invictus, William Henley

When Jesus had entered Capernaum, a centurion came to him, asking for help.  “Lord,” he said, “my servant lies at home paralyzed, suffering terribly.”
Jesus said to him, “Shall I come and heal him?”
The centurion replied, “Lord, I do not deserve to have you come under my roof. But just say the word, and my servant will be healed. For I myself am a man under authority, with soldiers under me. I tell this one, ‘Go,’ and he goes; and that one, ‘Come,’ and he comes. I say to my servant, ‘Do this,’ and he does it.”
When Jesus heard this, he was amazed and said to those following him, “Truly I tell you, I have not found anyone in Israel with such great faith………….Then Jesus said to the centurion, “Go! Let it be done just as you believed it would.” And his servant was healed at that moment.

Matthew, NIV

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The Abortionist….and Me

The abortionist and me………we live very different lives.

I get up, put a fire in the fireplace, get a cup of coffee and spend an hour or so in prayer, meditation, and writing these posts. Then I go to my shop and spend the day making things out of wood and selling them. I come home, have dinner, spend the evening with my wife and go to bed.

The abortionist, gets up, has his coffee, drives to the clinic, spends the day killing children, goes home, has dinner, spends the evening with his wife and goes to bed.

If I put us side by side and ask the question:

“Am I a more righteous man than him?”

There is no doubt in my mind…I am more righteous……at least from where I stand.

So far so good.

But…… there’s a problem.

The problem is a problem of scale. My scale runs from Hitler to Mother Teresa. On my scale I am way more righteous than the abortionist. And I feel great. But, in the final accounting, my scale isn’t the one that matters. It’s God’s scale that counts.

God’s scale of righteousness…….his spectrum of righteousness…. runs from Satan to God himself. And on that, much wider, spectrum of righteousness, the difference between me and the abortionist, while it is real…….is insignificant.

On the scale that counts, there is no meaningful difference in righteousness between me and the guy who kills ten or twenty children a day……every day…….for money.

From God’s perspective, the abortionist and I are in the same boat.

And that is humbling.

And that is why I desperately need forgiveness

That is why I desperately need mercy.

That is why I rely on God and on his love for me.

That is why I rely on his incredibly generous gift of salvation.

Incredibly costly and unearned by me.

Thank you Abba, for creating me, for loving me, and for forgiving me.

Amen

“There is no one righteous, not even one;

Paul, NIV

All we like sheep have gone astray; we have turned—every one—to his own way; and the Lord has laid on him the iniquity of us all.

Isaiah, NIV

For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and are justified by his grace as a gift, through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus,

Paul, NIV

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God Saves

Jesus was given his name by the angel who announced her pregnancy to Mary.

Jesus

It comes from the phrase “God Saves”. This name clearly fits, considering the ministry of Jesus. No doubt this name was chosen by God himself. It is the truth…….but, it must have infuriated the leaders of the Jewish synagogue. Jesus’s very name was blasphemous in their view.

Why?

The name “God saves” implies that the man bearing that name is God’s emissary for salvation. If you are Caiaphas, the high priest, that means that God has bypassed you and put an unemployed carpenter at the head of the church…… your church. It means that Jesus is closer to God than you are…….that you have been demoted. And Caiaphas reacted exactly the way you would expect him to.

His reaction was wrong……. because it was based on an assumption………Caiaphas assumed that Jesus was just an unemployed carpenter with a very ambitious name……nothing more. Caiaphas assumed that God was not actively at work in his world.

And that is the lesson for this week.

If you really want to make a fool out of yourself………begin your analysis of a situation……..on a bad assumption.

Assume that the world is flat.

Assume that human illness is caused by “bad humors in your blood”.

Assume that a chemist can transmogrify lead into gold.

Assume that current “scientific” knowledge is complete…….that the really smart guys out there have it all figured out.

Cosmologists tell us that the universe is much bigger than what we can see.

Philosophers tell us that reality is much more extensive than what we can know.

Theologists tell us that the truth covers lot more than what we can understand.

We all want to base our lives on the truth. Successful living requires this. But, the truth is a whole lot more extensive than our current understanding…….a fact that even the scientists will concede.

So…….we need to keep an open mind. You have, no doubt, analysed the world we live in……sought answers to the big questions:

How did we get here?

What are we here for……if anything?

Where are we going……..when we die……if anywhere?

My challenge for you is to have a good hard look at the assumptions that you began with. Be sure that they have not led you to discard any important truths. Be sure that you have not classified something as impossible……..just because it is impossible for you……..that it cannot be…….based on your assumptions.

Every day I meet very smart people. People who consider themselves to be open minded……….but who reject the possibility of any truth beyond what can be seen and measured.

Are you making the same assumption as Caiaphas……….that Jesus was just an unemployed carpenter……..that God is not actively involved in this world…….in your life?


Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight. Do not be wise in your own eyes;  fear the Lord and shun evil.

Solomon, NIV

Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see.

Paul, NIV

See to it that no one takes you captive through hollow and deceptive philosophy, which depends on human tradition and the elemental spiritual forces of this world rather than on Christ.

Paul, NIV

We know that “We all possess knowledge.” But knowledge puffs up while love builds up.

Paul, NIV

Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.  For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known. And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.

Paul, NIV
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What if the Truth Bothers You?

I am a firm believer in the truth.
The truth is real and the great truths are constant.
But not everything that is true is appealing.

There are things that are true……..that I don’t like…….that you don’t like. This post is about how we handle the things that are true……..but that bother us. I’m not talking about the little things. It may be true that traffic is congested today. It may be true that it will be moving tomorrow. I’m talking about the big ideas……truths that do not change………truths that guide and shape our lives.

How do we handle ideas that are true that we don’t like?
How do we handle truths that restrict our appetites?
How do we handle truths that tell us that we are wrong?
How do we handle truths that tell us that we are sinning?
For that matter…..what is sin?

The best definition of sin that I have run across is anything that we say, think, or do that separates us from God. We separate ourselves from God when we reject…….or ignore…..the great truths that God has set before us.

And that takes me back to my starting point. What do we do……when we run across a truth that we just don’t like?

I’m a shooter, guns are a hobby that I really enjoy.
But……..guns kill people and destroy things…….that is precisely what they are designed to do.

Women want control of their bodies.
But…….every abortion kills a child. Killing your child is precisely what your abortion is designed to do.

Conservatives want to control the influx of poor people from central America into our country.
But…….the Bible requires us to care for the downtrodden, the soujourner.

Liberals want the freedom to practice sex without restriction.
But……..the Bible prohibits sex outside of heterosexual marriage.

How do we handle these conflicts?

We have two choices:

Ignore /deny the truth and “party on”.

Accept the truth and reconsider our thoughts and actions.

It turns out that, in many ways, the world is a much more complicated place than we want to admit. It is often much easier, much more efficient, to ignore complicated conflicting truths than it is to deal with them. But, if we ignore these complicated, conflicting truths, we wind up living a shallow life. We become caricatures. We accept a shallow, oversimplified, two dimensional cartoonlike identity.

The good news is that we will find ourselves in good company. There are plenty of people who have sorted through these complicated issues…….cooked them down…….thrown out any conflicting truths, and packaged them.

The bad news is that they have shut out any idea that conflicts with “the package”:

The planet is getting warmer.

Every abortion kills somebody.

The bad news is that they demonize anyone who doesn’t sign on to “the package”. And that, in a nutshell, is the situation we find ourselves in with our political system……..and, unfortunately, in our lives.

It all comes down to one question.

What do I accept as my core identity?

Republican
Democrat
Environmentalist
Capitalist
Socialist
Gang member
Christian

Each of these pigeonholes has rules and restrictions. Each has truths that you must accept…….and other truths that you must reject……..or at least ignore. Just try being a pro-life Democrat. Just try being a gun-control Republican.

If you are honest with yourself, you must accept that this is a complicated mess.


I don’t like complicated messes and I don’t like suppressing truths……..even truths that bother me.
I have enough trouble keeping track of my car keys. I don’t have the wherewithall to keep a lid on all of the annoying truth that is out there.


So……….I give in……… I do what everybody else does. I pick a few central truths and focus on those.


The trick is to sort through all of the conflicting truths that are floating around out there……..and to prioritize them. Then, focus on the most important two or three truths in your list of thousands of truths.


For me:


Love God.
Love your neighbor.


You could do worse.


 “If you hold to my teaching, you are really my disciples. Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”
Jesus, NIV
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
Love never ends.
Paul, NIV
Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.
Paul, NIV

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Redemption

I have a few movies that I really love. I watch them over and over again.

Forrest Gump with Tom Hanks
Last Holliday with Queen Latifa
As Good as it Gets with Jack Nicholson
To name a few

Until recently I had never really given much thought to why I love these movies so much. Lately, I have come to realize that, at their heart, these movies are about redemption.

Redemption

It’s a word that we hear a lot…….but rarely analyse. So……what is redemption? At its core, redemption is when someone gives something and some other person benefits from the gift. In Christianity, it is the self sacrifice of Christ that allows believers to enter paradise. Redemption, in a broader sense, usually means that the person who receives it, is rescued from a bad situation……often a situation of their own making. Furthermore, the redeemed person, grows from the experience, becomes a better person.

We hear the word “saved” a lot…….so much so that it has become a catch phrase. And yet that is the best word that I can find to describe the act of being redeemed.

Saved…….but from what?


When you are redeemed, you are saved from yourself. You are saved from the self destructive behaviors that have become a part of your identity.


How does this work in my favorite movie…..Forrest Gump?


Forrest is not a powerful character. He is not strong. He’s not particularly brave. He is mildly mentally retarded. He can run. Sometimes he knows what he is running from. He rarely knows what he is running to. But……his great strength comes from his greatest weakness. Forrest is simple. He lives his life by following a simple code of behavior. He is intensely loyal to his friends. He loves his family. He tells the truth. He follows through on what he says he will do. He does all of this without ever asking “How will this get me ahead?” He adheres to his code and lets the chips fall where they may.


The result is that broken people who come into contact with him are healed from their brokenness. Lieutenant Dan and Jenny. They are saved…….from themselves. They grow into strong righteous loving people. Perhaps they grow into people who can in turn redeem others.


There is a line in “As Good as it Gets”. Jack Nicholson says to his costar, a kind and generous woman. “You make me want to be a better man”.


I think that redemption is something like that. One person lives a kind generous life, guided by a strong moral code…….in a word “Christlike”. That person interacts with those close to them in such a fashion that it changes them…….makes them want to be a better person. And so on and so on.


We tend to focus on redemption from the perspective of the person being redeemed. We tend to dwell on our own redemption. There is nothing wrong with this perspective……we should be grateful. But there is another perspective.


I’d like for us all to consider the possibility that we can also be the redeemer. This is very much the heart of Christianity.


How?


Live your life by following a strong moral code. You can start with:


Love God
Love your neighbor

Interact with your fellow man in such a way that they will see the joy and peace in your life and will want that joy and peace in their life……..so that they will want to be a better person.


If Forrest Gump can do it…….so can I.


“Do not fear, for I have redeemed you;
    I have summoned you by name; you are mine.
When you pass through the waters,
    I will be with you;
and when you pass through the rivers,
    they will not sweep over you.
When you walk through the fire,
    you will not be burned;
    the flames will not set you ablaze.”
God, NIV

“I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.”
Jesus, NIV


Follow God’s example, therefore, as dearly loved children and walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us.
Paul, NIV
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